The Father Behind LITTLE MISS

As I've said before, I cherish the time that I spend reading with my boys. It is the rare time during the day that I have all of their undivided attention, and for a space in time, we get to experience something together that is truly outside of our world, all while snuggled up close.

"A reader lives a thousand lives before he dies,"
 said George Martin. "The man who never reads lives only one."

There are many of you that share this same belief. 

 The power of unlocking worlds as well as our minds, and embarking on endless adventures with our children during those valuable little moments of reading together.

One such friend of ours has taken his passion for reading, and love of learning, and extended it to his child in a very tangible way. He devised a plan that yielded rewards, far exceeding his expectations, and reading about his journey will empower you to shoot beyond the mark in any area of your life.

Nearly a year ago, Nate Meikle, asked John and I to read his Memoir that he had written about his experience teaching his 2 1/2 year old daughter to read.  

I was intrigued to hear about his experience, particularly because learning to read for our oldest son Ty came so naturally. He did everything early, according to my friends; however, he was completely self motivated. Sure he watched the Preschool Prep videos (which I highly recommend) and I read to him religiously but, before I could really consider how I would teach him to read, he was already doing it on his own, so hearing about an actual reading program was altogether a new idea for me. 

Not to mention starting as young as two and a half.

Nate's book struck a chord with me. 

Not only did it confirm to me the benefits of reading to your children, but also showed the valuable contribution reading adds to the parent-child relationship. 

Who doesn't want to connect more deeply with their children?  

Here we are, one year later since I read his book for the first time, and I am happy to share, 

his book is now live on Amazon! 

Little Miss

A Father, His Daughter and Rocket Science 

No matter your season in life, children or no children,

 I highly encourage you to take an hour and read it! 

It's more than just a book about reading to your child. 

It is a true testament of the human spirit and defying odds, 

of pushing yourself beyond cultural expectations and 

 fully reaching for your potential. 

By the way, how AMAZING is this cover?!!

I love the insight he shares that we as human beings, especially children, should be praised for our effort and not for simply 'being smart'. 

A mistake John and I made early on 

and are now trying our best to reverse. 

I also love that Nate isn't out to push a one size fits all approach to teaching your child to read, but is instead raising the awareness of just how much our children, and ourselves, can accomplish if we will but foster the environment to do so. 

Let them soar, encourage it, and break the bounds that we too often let society set. 

They are hungry for learning, why not feed their hunger?

An added bonus of this book, is a list he shares of their top 200 favorite Children's Books.

From a couple, (Nate's wife Keshia was of course key to this experiment) who read over 3,000 different books to their child in one year, I trust their opinion. 

 Who doesn't want a fresh reading list? 

Nate has given us a little tiny sneak peek into that list here:

1. Ain't Gonna Paint No More! Karen Beaumont
2. Where's My Mom? Julie Donaldson
3. Blue Chameleon Emily Gravett
4. Goldilocks and Just One Bear Leigh Hodgkinson
5. Plant a Kiss Amy Krouse Rosenthal
6. Mahalia Mouse Goes to College John Lithgow
7. Marshall Armstrong is New to Our School David Mackintosh
8. Bubble Trouble Margaret Mahy
9. Artichoke Boy Scott Mickelson
10. The Little Bitty Bakery Leslie Muir
11. The Skeleton in the Closet Alice Schertle
12. Cowboy and Octopus Jon Sciezka
13. Hello Muddah, Hello Faddah Allen Sherman
14. Robot Zombie Frankenstein Annette Simon
15. I'm a Duck Teri Sloat
16. Little Mouse Gets Ready Jeff Smith
17. We Can't Sleep James Stevenson
18. Woof a Love Story Sarah Weeks
19. A Few Blocks Cybele Young
20. A Million Chameleons James Young

So who is the father behind LITTLE MISS?

You may be thinking, "What is the purpose of teaching your 2 year old to read?" Or, "How can I relate to someone who not only had the desire to take on this task, but actually completed it?" 

I will answer with the question, "How can you not relate?" 

As you will soon come to find out, 

there is a little bit of Nate in all of us. 

He saw the value in giving this gift to his daughter,

 because he has experienced the fruits of gaining knowledge for himself. 

He not only made a goal for his daughter and then guided her through the process of achieving it, he himself is the result of one who has set high goals for himself and achieved much because of his commitment and hard work. 

He has had set backs, he has had to give tremendous effort for what he has accomplished and he has gifts, but none more extraordinary than you or I. 

Throughout his college football career he suffered injuries, played on meager scholarships or no scholarship at times. Regardless of previous football accomplishments, he was initially not only denied a scholarship to play Division-I ball, but was told his opportunity was only on the practice squad with no possibility for game time. After working to show the coaches what he was capable of for a solid year on the practice squad, he was then asked to change positions. Despite his adversities he committed his time and in John's words, "worked his tail off everyday!" and was awarded a scholarship his senior year at BYU. He not only played but contributed to the team's success in a major way.

He went on to defy the odds and was credited with several accomplishments and awards:

 Conference-high 26 punt returns for 307 yards, 2nd in the MWC with an average of 11.8 yards per punt return, ESPN The Magazine Academic All-Region, and set the record for most receptions in a BYU Bowl Game at 12 catches. 

John, Nate, and Curtis Brown after winning the Las Vegas Bowl

Nate is 5 ft 9 inches, he played running back his entire life but achieved these accomplishments at BYU while playing receiver, a position he had never played, because in his words, 

"I couldn't catch, at least not consistently." 

How can that be like you and me? 

Because he took what he did have and he made it more. 

That is something we are all capable of doing.

During his senior year at BYU, Nate took the LSAT and scored in the 55th percentile. Nate then spent a couple years working in real estate, until he realized that the only thing that stood between him and qualifying for the top law programs in the country was his effort. He spent six months studying for the LSAT in order to take it again, this time scoring high enough to get into law school at Stanford. 

Of course I'm not surprised at all to see what Nate has accomplished over the years. It was easy to see these qualities in Nate when I first met him over 12 years ago.  

Before BYU, with its records, awards, and championships, before my husband grew to admire and love Nate, and share life long memories with him,

 there were the Snow College days.

This is where Nate and I shared a group of friends that spent a year of college life together. There was our intramural coed basketball team (which dominated of course), water fights, Sunday dinners, open discussions about the gospel, dances, and we girls may or may not have broken into their house one weekend to raid their treats:) In fact we even had a we even had a marriage come from this group of friends.

As any of our mutual friends can attest, he is a person of integrity and consistency. He is someone we trust, admire, and can depended on. Nate is a doer and we all recognize it. We knew then that he was going to go places and he wasn't afraid to stand alone if he had to, in order to accomplish what he set out to do.  

LITTLE MISS is the kind of book I value, because I know the kind of person behind it. It isn't written by someone who is simply just a scholar and out of touch with every day life. 

He is a dad just doing his best, 

investing in the most important thing he can: 

his daughter.

He doesn't have some unattainable secret to accomplishing difficult things. 

He simply makes commitments and keeps them,

 "works his tail off" and has fun along the way. 

Just what are you capable of? 

You'll never know until you begin the path to find out.

Saving

This is a Post that John's cousin's wife, 

Melissa Beck, 

wrote yesterday.

I find it so profound and she agreed to let me share it here.

"I witnessed a terrible car accident yesterday. The man in front of me was turning left and a car going straight T-boned him going 50 miles an hour. I pulled over and ran to see if everyone was o.k. A registered nurse was there in seconds and was already holding the driver's head in her hands and talking to him. For some reason I felt like I was suppose to stay and be there too. His name is Cameron and he is 24 years old he wasn't married, and didn't have any children. The nurse spoke so sweetly as tears quietly slid down his cheeks. She was trying to keep him awake and conscious. I found his cell phone and called his Dad who had happened to be at that location just moments before. He was able to come to the accident and noticed that the man who had been driving the other car, who was unharmed, was a man he knew from church years ago. The ambulance took Cameron away and the nurse drove away. And then I left too. For a moment, in a an awful instant people came together and we all cared about this one human being who needed us. Cameron had been the one to cause the accident. It was his fault he was in this circumstance, but we all ran to his rescue and would have done whatever it would take to save him. I can't stop thinking about it. People all around us are experiencing terrible tragedy and sorrow from their own choices or trials placed upon them. Some we can see and others we can not. But oh how they need rescuing, they need people to run to save them and do whatever it takes to rescue them. I hope we all can be more aware of the people around us who need love, care, attention, and saving."

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Bloom Where You Are Planted

via shayla lillian

Sometimes you just get in a funk. Sometimes it's hard to find the motivation, to do the things you really want to do and know you should be doing. Sometimes, you go to bed every night hoping the next day is better, only to find a seemingly new set of issues for you to sort through. You're not defeated. You're just slowing down your pace a bit, to gather your thoughts and gain the energy to take it all on.
I found myself in this funk before Summer ended a few weeks ago. I had been in Canada for the entire summer, spending every day alone with my three boys. Fabulous right? It actually was! Really, I loved it! We stay in an amazing location, with an incredible view. I walked my boys to the beach several times a week this summer and ate ice cream almost daily. 
What could be dreamier? 
Typically when I move to a new place, I am eager to discover all there is to do in my new land. I talk to as many locals as I can while out with the boys, finding out the best spots. 
Oh, rest assured, I have followed the same pattern this time. I have a running list on my phone of places to see and things to experience here in the Pacific Northwest. 
But, you could find me instead watching the Nanny McPhee movies. In the middle of the day... 
Crying at the part when the naughty children have learned all their lessons and they love her so and don't want her to go. Then she reminds them in her fabulous English accent, "When you need me but do not want me, I must stay. But when you want me but no longer need me, it is then that I must go".

My only reasonable explanation for this is: 

I'm home sick. 

A feeling I don't relate to often. Not that I don't love home, Dorothy was absolutely right, "There is no place like home." 
I guess I rarely find myself homesick because 1. We move together as a family and that's all you really need right? and
2. I love adventures! I was born a free spirit! Even as a youth I was often questioned by my parents why I couldn't just stay home and be. Well of course because there is too much to see and do and too many people I need to know and learn about!
 There is no obvious explanation to an outside person that I should suddenly find myself terribly homesick here on this great adventure in Vancouver, especially since moving is all I have done for 7 years straight. And not only does my mind wander to my home and not to mention, real shower in San Diego,(my shower here literally drips water) but actually all the way back to my younger years. I have been desperate for my Grandparents these days. Going to church here in White Rock B.C., among mostly elderly folk, has me aching for my childhood summers at the farm with Grandma Eileen and sewing little scraps of fabric at the feet of Great Grandma B. Or, on the patio listening to Grandma Burke tell me story after story, while she rocks away in her wicker chair. 
There is just something about these days that have things all out of whack!
  Let's be honest, there is the undeniable fact that transitioning to new places, can throw you for a loop. It can happen in the first month, first week, or maybe its the 8th week. The fact that you are away from your comfort zone and starting anew will catch up. 
The first time I moved away from home, (not to be confused with moving away for college no more than 2 hours away)but for real, moved away from home, across the country, to another state, for a real job, I met Jennie Mathison. 
I was a new mother to my sweet Ty Ty. I was barely 24 years old. John had just been drafted to the Miami Dolphins and life was nothing short of exciting. We bought our first new house and started a new adventure together… across the country in South Florida, which is basically South America... 
Jennie was assigned to me as my Visiting Teacher. 
Visiting Teaching is a program in our church where the women in the congregation are assigned other women to look after and serve where needed. I am convinced that we would have been friends regardless, but I learned why Heavenly Father placed her in my life at that specific time. 
Jennie, is a seasoned mover, and although that didn't mean much to me at the time,
 I quickly found out just why I needed her then.
 Our promising, bright future in South Florida was about to come to an end, and send us on the journey of our lives living all around the country,(and now out of the country) changing environments every 6 months, as John played for different teams and trained in San Diego in the off season.

While Jennie's husband Art served in the Army for 20 years, they moved 9 times around the U.S. and once in South Korea. Living in each location any where between 1-3 years. Now I've learned from experience, that it takes a good year to get "settled" somewhere new, so you can imagine how many times she and her family adjusted to a place only to have to uproot again. 
I have the utmost respect and admiration for their family for the obvious reasons that they sacrificed so much for our country, but there are qualities behind a dedicated and devoted wife of Lt. Colonel, that I only hope to be able adequately portray.
 When I think of Jennie the word selfless is forefront in my mind. Not only does she support her husband in all his personal and professional pursuits, but she is a phenomenal mother to her three children. She supports them in their passions but beyond that, truly dedicates her time and purpose to being their mother. She jumps right in and serves wherever she is needed, as was demonstrated when she lived near me for only 11 months and immediately took an interest in me and serving me as my visiting teacher. She is the most pleasant, and genuine person you will ever meet. She truly lives the motto, "Bloom where you are planted," and because she is that person I took to heart what she taught me, one day through conversation. 
She said, "I always tell myself each time I move, that this time I will not let myself get into a moving slump, and each time, no matter how hard I try, it comes anyway." 
In times like these, I like to remember her saying that.
Jennie Mathisen, in all her pleasantness and genuine positiveness. She gave me the ok to allow myself that time, just to get my ducks in a row and to adjust. To be in a moving slump. To know I'll eventually come out of it, and bloom when I'm ready.

  

A Life Lived For Others

In light of recent weeks, I think it only appropriate to share what I know to be a great jump start to climbing out of a funk and reconnecting with what's most important and that is:

 simply to find a way to serve another person.
It can be in any capacity, big or small. The fact that you are making the effort to look at the world thru the eyes of someone else, rather than staying fixed in your own frame of reference, combats the urge you may have to wallow.
I mean in no way to minimize the suffering that people endure, or adversities they face, by claiming a quick fix to life's challenges.
 Sometimes trails can be the undercurrent in our lives for months or even years. 
Maybe you find yourself feeling deflated for a moment, while you work to strike a balance of obligations, or maybe you are fighting a difficult challenge that few can relate to and  
of course there is everything in-between.
I simply know from experience that there has never been a time in my life, when my burden hasn't been made light, by offering my time to lessen the burden of another.

I find it a miracle really, the give and take of life.
 Right when you find yourself searching for a solution to your personal riddle, the Lord provides a way for you to see those who really actually need you to be their answer. 
The balance of it all never ceases to amaze me. 

It couldn't be a more perfect time, for me to share a person near and dear to my heart, 
Darci Lee Simkins Burke.
  She is my friend, who also just so happens be my sister in-law.
Darci has a core purely made up of serving others.  
I have never seen Darci stuck in a bad mood, or heard her speak ill of another person. She is a very hands on, understanding, and loving mother to her 4 children. She is always wearing that gorgeous smile, and certainly knows how to have a good time.
I cherish my connection with her and the memories we have together from being teenage girls, to college students, to becoming wives, and now mothers. 

Just watch out when it comes to us doing anything 
that involves TREATS! 
Actually, who am I kidding? 
Me and treats with anyone, can be dangerous.

 

Somehow amidst the pestering and obnoxiousness of older brothers, as the youngest, I have always idolized all my siblings, and my brother Brandon is no exception. The fact that he was able to get Darci Lee Simkins to fall for him, makes me love him that much more. Darci and I actually attended rival high schools, when I was a sophomore and she was a senior, which is no biggie 

except that we both played on our school's basketball teams, 

need I say more? 

During this time, my brother Brandon was on his mission, and while it would have been easy for her to avoid a sincere connection, she instead made efforts to build a relationship with me. I certainly looked up to her then, especially because my brother was so smitten for her, but I have watched her since that time, offer selfless service time and time again, which has only deepened my love and appreciation for her. Her actions have empowered me to not only reach outside myself, but to provide opportunities for my children to serve as well.

I have known Darci for over 16 years and have witnessed her selflessness in many capacities. She supported my brother through all his Undergrad, Dental, and Orthodontic degrees with commitment and encouragement. She volunteers her time in church, to her friends, and in her children's classrooms.
 And listen, this girl goes the extra mile. 
She took parent volunteering to the next level by preparing and demonstrating science experiments one year, all while wearing a lab coat and glasses and complete with an accent. 
She not only shows up on Sundays but works throughout the week to build relationships with the girls she leads. 
I was truly humbled, when years ago I witnessed her volunteering her time to watch kids for a family with 7 children for FIVE DAYS when she had 3 young ones of her own, so that the parents could go house hunting in the city they were moving to.  

 She showed me that true service, is rarely about connivence and more about pure love and putting someone else's needs 
before your own comfort. 
She does this time and time again without giving it a second thought. In fact she doesn't even fully remember half of these things that she did, that are alive in my memory from years ago.

She goes beyond herself, and not only teaches her children to serve, but gives them the opportunities as well.

For example, while my brother was going to Dental and Orthodontic school and they lived on the East Coast. They were far from their own families and living on nothing, 
but they used the time to think of others. 
They made a significant effort to visit those with severe disabilities who were residents in a home. They made homemade Christmas gifts, and Valentines cards for them, and loved their experience so much that they started visiting almost weekly. 
One of their special fiends there named Greg, was wheel chair bound. He and my nephew Shaydon formed a bond playing pingpong together, which truly meant a lot to Greg, considering the fact that he carried ping pong gear with him 
in his wheel chair everyday.
They have also paid many visits to Nursing homes where they sing  to and chat with the elderly living there.

But naturally it's difficult to always make the time to take children places.

That doesn't stop them. Their children have spent time writing and sending letters to Soldiers. They have also written pen pal letters to other children, who have fatal or non-cureable diseases.(A website I found if you want to take this up with your own children here)
  My earliest memory of Darci, teaching her children to serve was  hearing of their service Fridays. I wasn't even a mother yet, and it touched me so deeply that this was an important thing to do with my own children some day.

My nephew Shaydon, even started a service club when he was in 2nd grade. (See what I'm talking about here folks!) 

He called it "Little Helping Hands". He came up with the name and logo and had cards made. Friends from school and in their neighborhood have become involved. They have sang and done talent shows at nursing homes, volunteered at the Utah Food Bank, written letters to veterans and assembled humanitarian kits. Little Helping Hands also volunteered at a homeless shelter where they organized food to pass out, along with hygiene kits they had assembled. 

Last year Darci and Brandon took their two oldest children Shaydon and Graci, on a trip to China with them where my Brother gave lectures at a dental school on orthodontics and how it is practiced in the U.S.

 Darci made sure to use this opportunity to serve and included her children in the process. While there, they visited a school in a remote village where the people had NOTHING. 

The school house was the size of a small living room.

The Chinese children and parents were mesmerized by Shaydon and Graci
 since they had NEVER seen Americans.

Shaydon teaching them how to give "knuckles" 

Brandon looked at their teeth and suggested treatments. 

Darci brought over scarves that she had the young women from our church make to give to children. They gave other donations like, balls, crayons, coloring books, and then spent time making 
jewelry and coloring with them. 

Disclaimer: No, Darci isn't suddenly great with child in this picture, just being a little extra cautious in a foreign country with her purse. You know the feeling when your far from home,... I mean you want to give, but not necessarily hand over your passports and wallet :) 

Now, you might be reading this going, "Ugh! Seriously? Who is this perfect woman? Who has time to think of and carry out all of these service projects amidst the life of a mom

 to four children?" 

Lets look at this for what it is… Darci with her heart of gold, and love for others, wants others to be happy, so she started small and those small consistent acts led to greater and more.

 We can all start somewhere and that 

is what I love about the power of example. 

Now on to her recent trip to Africa, which is the first of it's kind but I'm certain not the last! 
She took this trip with the Ordinary Hero Foundation. 
Darci's experiences were so rich, 
I'm thankful that she agreed to share them here.
She starts by sharing some interesting info about Ethiopia:

" -Don't ask someone how old they are, especially kids, because they will have no idea. Many people who adopt from Ethiopia have to make up a birthday for the child they are bringing home

-If you are caught being involved in pornography 
you could go to jail 

-It's culture there for men to not be very involved in their families lives. It is common for them to just up and leave and find a new life with out any obligation to their families. Due to this, many women are stuck raising the kids and working … 
which only adds to the growing problem 
there of hunger and homelessness.

-There are 90 million people

-5 million people in Addis (Where I went)

-60,000 Street kids of all ages. I saw some as young as 4 or 5 living on their own.

-15,000 prostitutes

I met a man while there who changed my heart in many ways. I was able to spend a lot of time with him and ask him many questions. My friend Deborah, wanted to go on a 14 hour car ride each way to see the birth place of her son she was adopting , and where he spent time living on the street as a young boy,(Watch his remarkable story here). Deborah asked me if I wanted to come along and see parts of Africa I probably would never have the opportunity to experience again. Little did I know that I would be flopping around in a van on the crazy roads of Africa with absolutely no driving rules, no seatbelt and no A.C. through a desert where I thought I would die of heat! All while sitting on top of all our luggage the entire way. But the treat I received in return of getting to know Bizrat was all worth it. 

He came along on the trip as a good friend of Deborah's and a helpful translator. He has people call him Bizzy :) 

Before Bizzy was born, his parents decided to join a Monastery, but they wanted to have a child first, (you can't have kids or be married when you join a monastery). As you can guess they found a way around that stipulation. They fulfilled their wish of having a child, and shortly after being born Bizzy's parents then joined the monastery. Even though his parents could not "be" together they could raise him together. 
BOTH of his parents were blind so when he was little his parents tied him to a tree so they would know where he was, at all times. He was raised believing that Jesus Christ was not divine, just a great teacher. They also do not believe the Bible. When Bizzy was around 15 years old, some Christian Missionaries came to visit the monastery where he was living. They shared with him their testimony of Jesus Christ and gave him a Bible. He said he felt it deep in his heart that it was true and he knew Jesus Christ was the Savior of the world. I asked him how many times he has read the Bible and he said, 'Oh..many, many times!'

He shared his belief of Jesus and the Bible with others at the monastery. Because of this, they stripped him of his clothes and put him in prison for three days. After the three days, they told him he could not longer live there. They tied him to the top of a car, (because they considered him cursed)
 drove him three miles away and dropped him off. 
He had nothing but his Bible. 
He found his way to the city of Addis where he was told he could find food easily. Once in Addis, some other street kids told him about Korah. Korah is a community next to the garbage dump, where people dig through piles and plies of garbage to find food.  Bizzy went there and ended up living in the trash dump
 for 13 years!  
He slept on a pile of plastic bottles every night. 

 His life was literally the trash dump. 

He told me he would dream of eating fresh bread. 
While living there he continued to teach others about 
Jesus and the Bible.
 He was a missionary.  
He said, he was 'weak in the flesh, but strong in the spirit.'  

One of the people Bizzy converted to Christianity while living in the trash dump is named Tesfi. 
Tesfi, is now running a ministry in Korah to help the people there, and oversees all of the sponsorships.  

Tesfi is in the green jacket. 

Not only does his mother have leprosy, but he also spent many years living off of trash. Some of his stories from living in the trash dump, are hard to wrap your mind around. For example, one time, he took a bite of a rat thinking it was a potato! Another time he mistakingly ate vomit out of a brown sack mistaking it for a sort of chili.

(I have a hard time even typing that)

Tesfi was eventually sponsored by an American that put him through school and fed his family for many years. And now Tesfi is changing thousands of lives (literally). 
What an awesome example of how helping one can 
really change the world.  

The Ordinary Hero Foundation, met Bizzy while he was in Korah. Bizzy knew English (he found an English dictionary in the Monastery and taught himself) and so OH asked if he would like to be a translator for them. This led to other opportunities for Bizzy. He is now living in Addis, and manages the Guest House where teams and adoptive families stay, and continues to be a missionary.  

You would think that after experiencing a life like this you would be mad at God, and have an angry heart. But Bizzy was completely opposite. He is always smiling! Always so grateful for everything. So concerned about others well being and their needs.  To me, he is an amazing example of how a Christian lives their life. I learned so much from him and am so grateful for his example of Christlike love, his determination, and his disposition of GRATITUDE.

 He said to me, 'Some people are blessed with material wealth, some are blessed with family, some are blessed with good health,  and that is all good for them, but regardless of what you are blessed with, His grace is sufficient for all….and that is reason enough to be happy.'  

I love this.  

While there we visited several orphanages and drop in centers.  Drop in centers are where kids who are living on the streets first come to receive food, clothes, and a bed to sleep on. They are taught the Bible every day and their hearts are changed.  
I saw it firsthand and it was amazing. Each place we went to, we heard stories from the kids about their lives and how they had overcome their trials. I was heartbroken all week, but also in so much awe of the human spirit and what people have to suffer with, and how they rise above. There really aren't many words to express it, and it would take a novel to tell all of the incredible stories I heard.

This little guy, we found naked on a cold day and I was happy to give him some of my son's clothes that I had 
brought with me to donate.

At the Orphanages we would just love on those little children. They wanted love and affection so badly.

 We would play games with them, play soccer, or do crafts with them. At one of the orphanages I noticed they used an old tire and tied it up in the tree for a basketball hoop. I went and bought them a real hoop with real basketballs. One of their biggest needs is having things to do during the day when they aren't in school.

One of the girls had such a sad story. 
She had been living on the streets for some time. 
She was raped and beaten continually by men taking 
advantage of her situation. 
When they found her they said she was lying on the side of the road badly beaten. 
They said she had no soul left and would never smile or talk. After being at the orphanage for some time, she began to have some light in her again. After teaching her about Jesus Christ, giving her a safe place to live, and providing her with the love and attention she needed, her countenance changed.
 Now, you can't get her to stop smiling! 
She is one of the sweetest people I have ever met.

   

One last thing that I want to share. In Entoto mountain there is a community of people that go there to find a cure from Aids and Tuberculosis from the "holy water". They basically go there and die. They have families and kids. Some of them are lucky to get even one meal a day. There is a ministry there as well that tries to help as many people as possible and OH also has sponsorships to help them. The government can give them medicine for these diseases, but if they do not have proper nutrition, the medicine can do nothing for them.

So, while there you see women carrying these huge bundles of sticks on their backs. These bundles weigh 150-200 lbs! They carry them 20 miles and sell their bundles for $1! They do this everyday, rain or shine, pregnant or not. We passed a couple of women doing this on our way down the mountain. We offered to put their bundles on top of our car, and give them a ride to where they needed to go to sell them. 
It took 6 grown adults to lift the bundle of sticks off these women's back and load them on the van! 
I saw some women who had to be at least 80 years old doing this." 

Finally, I asked Darci what was hard about coming back? 

"It was hard coming from a place where people are literally starving to death right in front of our eyes, and then coming home to all that we have... and hearing my kids complain about things like, 'we don't have good food in our house,' or 
'The I Pad is dead!' Or 'Why do I have to do chores?' They just don't yet realize how blessed they are and what real life is like for so many people in this world. That was hard. And a day hasn't gone by since I came home, that I don't think about the people I met there and what they go through every day just to stay alive. Then I drive to the grocery store in my comfortable car and buy groceries for my family like it's no big deal, which it isn't… but it is after seeing what I saw. 
This trip taught me in a different, but very real way, the power of love, and that it truly changes people including those who are giving it. I loved seeing how by helping and loving one person, you really are changing the world.
Those incredible people are heroes in my eyes for what they have overcome in their lives.
 It is hard for me to put into words an experience that truly changed my life."

And that my friends is an example of
 A Life Lived For Others.

Link to Generations

It has been a good few years, since I first had the desire to compile and somehow share the incredible people that I have met throughout life and how they inspire me to live the way I live. I could just never quite wrap my mind around the most effective way to do it. Sure, I went through a few options in my mind but none of them seemed like the most interesting way to capture others attention and lets be honest, the option of a blog? Well, it must be obvious to anyone that the blogging world is nearly over saturated with creative and "willing to share" people with the best and most innovative ideas that we all love. Hello Pinterest! I am right there with the next person getting inspired by Pinterest daily, to which I thank those over zealous and most creative people for sharing from the bottom of my heart. Seriously!… But somehow I just couldn't anticipate that another blog, Especially one that does't boast tasty recipes or the latest trends, would be fascinating to anyone. So, I got real and asked myself who is my target audience? (I know, hilarious that I assumed there would be an audience) and I'm going to venture to say that it was almost immediately that the answer was a resounding: your posterity! I want my boys to know who I am, and why, and plant in them the seeds to look for the good in others. To know that God answers our prayers and molds us through others and we in turn have the power to do the same. So of course a blog is in fact the best way that I know of to write your own personal story and have it made into a book.

I believe strongly in the connection between the human family and specifically between past and future generations. I have never been much into the data collecting of my genealogy, (despite the fact that I worked at Myfamily.com for nearly a year during college), I have however, always loved to hear the stories told to me by Grandma Elsie and Grandma Eileen. I would listen in amazement that they could actually recall all of those facts and stories, some passed down through generations. One time, while in college, I sat down with Grandma Eileen and gave her an interview of sorts as I typed as fast as I could go, the answers she gave. Speaking of Grandma Eileen, it has been almost 3 years since she passed and I have to say that I think I am just beginning to mourn her death. It happened so unexpectedly, and with all the attention on Grandpa Bill and his rapid decline in health, her passing almost seemed like a cruel joke. I didn't know how to get myself to believe that it was truly real. 

The only way that I know I am starting to accept that she has literally passed to the other side, is that lately as I sit to play the piano, and plunk my way through the Hymns that Scott has assigned me, I think of Her. I think of her love of music, I think of the story I heard time and time again, of her father who was also very musical buying her a piano as a girl, which was no small feat in those days. I think of the fact that she was self taught, which is mind boggling to me, and then taught others for decades. She used her talent to give a lifetime worth of service in the church playing the piano. So while I practice, as of lately, it is her example that motivates me to develop and grow. And I literally feel her presence with me and her encouragement as I take on this challenge at such a busy time in my life.

Picture taken of us in 2007 at my baby shower when I was pregnant with Ty.

Having all of these thoughts lately and following my heart to start "my book", I was thrilled to learn today in church about the stories of Pioneers and how we are all Pioneers in some shape of form. In fact a beautiful lady raised her hand right before the lesson was ending to make the comment that she had once heard, "if you ever write a book, let it be the book of your life." Well there ya go! 

One lady was heavy advocating the family search section of LDS.org during the lesson. I became really excited about the idea of showing this to my boys and more particularly about finding out exactly what countries my ancestors came from since I LOOOVVEE to travel and have been wanting for sometime to go to several European countries. Ty and I searched and so far found that we had Ireland, England, Scotland, Denmark and Germany in our family line. We even have an ancestor who immigrated to Canada first before going to the U.S. It was fun to be about to show Ty the pictures that were on the site, entered by others in the family line. On one particular ancestor it was noted that she was known for her blond hair and blue eyes. I turned to Ty and said, "that's where we get it!" He quickly put that to rest by replying, "no mom your hair is black, you just make it blond." Hummmm, well it was once blond, smarty pants. Here are some of the pictures I found

Charles E. Peterson middle back row, is my Great Great Grandfather married to Barbara Ann for whom I am named after. She was an amazing hard working woman, who raised my Grandpa Bill after his mother died while he was a young boy.

Jane Johnston Black is one of my more famous (in the LDS Church) relatives, as she was a midwife who delivered many babies on the trek as well as took care of John Taylor and dressed his wounds following the martyrdom of Joseph and Hyrum Smith.

There is simply an empowerment that comes, when you learn the legacies of those that came before you and consider the legacy that you want to leave behind to those that follow. 

If that doesn't motivate you to live a full life, I can't imagine what could.